You know how it is, right, ladies? You know a guy for a while. You hang out with him. You do fun things with him—play video games, watch movies, go hiking, go to concerts. You invite him to your parties. You listen to his problems. You do all this because you think he wants to be your friend.
What the fuck is this
Friend zoning is not a real thing. It’s either 1) entitlement 2) miscommunication.
No one is under an obligation to see anyone else romantically. If you put kindness into a relationship expecting to get something out of it, that is not friendship. That’s entitlement. Overt declarations of…
This is a capture of a profile of a mid twenty something man who messaged me because he was “happy that I didn’t only date within my race”, and that was pretty much the jist of the message. Sir, I’m not ignoring your message because you’re black, I’m ignoring it because you think you’re this magnificent creature I should just be so curious about. I’m not. Not even a little bit. Also
You know the crazy cat lady that no woman wants to be? I think I recently met the male alternative. With a dog.
This gentleman and I went on one, incredibly short date. We walked our dogs together. I thought this would lead to “let me drop my dog off and we’ll continue on this date” but no. no….
A post by Amber
Recently an ex announced he was moving to Japan. This is all well and good and falls under the “appropriate email” category rather than when he says losing me was the biggest “missteak” he ever had (for a minute I thought he was asking me if I…
By the way I am reblogging almost all of this tumblr because it is run by my gorgeous friend Amber, and sometimes I guest-post there.